Monday, March 4, 2013

Miss my "Mate"

Recently I was in Freiburg , a small but busy city in Germany. It was nice but for some reasons, I was not in the shopping mood I thought I will be in. I was bored with all the stores and got confused by the language barrier ( apparently Germans who lived 1.5 hours away from France still do not speak French).

But what made my day was spotting a Starbucks! I yelled "OMG A STARBUCKS, I MUST GO THERE!" much to the amusement of nearly Germans. I told DH to take Arwen away for awhile while I grab a cup of Toffee Nut Latte. Stepping in, I inhale the familiar fragrant aroma and felt so much at home and quickly placed an order.

Took my precious T.N Latte and stand at a corner, suddenly very sad.. memories rushed in.. I miss my friend Andrea.

She is like the coolest, the most loyal person, most real friend I had made in a long long time. We used to have this little afternoon getaways where first we will head to Starbucks and grab a grande and just walk and talk. We talked about everything and anything and about nothing. I often came home from one of our meetings, not knowing what we actually had chatted the last 3 hours but yet feels so good, so connected, so happy.

I do not know if I will ever meet another person like her. I do not think me and her, we are like perfect people ever and even now I wonder how we clicked but it is THAT CONNECTION. A person who just GETS me and I hope I her ( most of the time at least) , that understands what I the hell I am talking about ( very very very very few people does..) , who never stood me up ( carrying her toddler to my house for playdate despite horrendous pouring rain by a cab), who has the most wicked sense of humor and her strength and courage is depthless and who is not afraid to ask for advice or help when she needs it.

I admired her a lot as a whole person, the way she lead her life, the way she raised her two kids, the way she never gives up. I dedicated this post and my cup of T.N Latte to her and our friendship. Cheers Mate!


 
                                Of course my T.N Latte did not ultimately go unnoticed by Arwen...

Written on 12th December 2012.

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